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Men And Women: “Mismatched Libidos”

… AND THE GENERAL LACK OF “MALE GAME” || By FITSNEWS || The sexual incompatibility of men and women is on display this week … and it’s not looking good for the guys. A CNN panel attempted to answer a common question raised by many women: “Why don’t we want…

… AND THE GENERAL LACK OF “MALE GAME”

|| By FITSNEWS || The sexual incompatibility of men and women is on display this week … and it’s not looking good for the guys.

A CNN panel attempted to answer a common question raised by many women: “Why don’t we want to have sex as much as our husbands do?”

One likely answer?  The lack of male game.

“Men warm up much more quickly than women do,” therapist Julie Holland told the network.

Ya think?  Not only that, they finish faster – usually achieving an orgasm in one-fifth the amount of time it takes a woman to do the same.

“When a man and a woman get together to have sex and the man can easily climax in four or five minutes but the woman takes a half hour, what do you do with that discrepancy?” Holland noted.

Hmmmm …

A woman’s need for “transition time” also appears to be critical to everyone having a happy ending.  And, you know, all the good that comes with that.

In fact that was one of the conclusions of an orgasm study conducted recently by Cosmopolitan magazine.

“What we found was that the reason that women couldn’t have orgasms most of the time was that they just reported they just couldn’t get over the edge, and to me that says you didn’t have a transition,” said Leslie Yazel, executive editor of Cosmopolitan.  “You weren’t quite in the mood and so I think that’s the real issue, is sort of making sure that you’re ready to go there.”

In other words, men: Don’t expect your women to be in the mood just because you felt them up while they were emptying the dishwasher (a mistake our founding editor has made countless times).

Of course as we noted earlier this week, not all women have a problem being “ready to go there.”  They are ready … and then some.

Our view?

Men with real game don’t have to worry about any of this … they automatically know how to get their woman in the mood, and always handle her business before their own.  Back in real life, though, our guess is a little listening and understanding (and romance) probably goes a long way …

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85 comments

TroubleBaby May 12, 2015 at 5:08 pm

“Happy wife, happy life.”

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The_Future_of_Columbia May 12, 2015 at 5:11 pm

Another crappy article on this crappy website. I like to go read real news then come here last to see what sort of liberal bullshit you will spout next. Try leaving your worthless opinion out of ONE article and you might, MIGHT, gain some respect.

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Silliness Observer May 12, 2015 at 5:28 pm

Yes no doubt about it Fits s a real”liberal.”

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Opinions R US May 12, 2015 at 5:31 pm

It’s an OPINION site. If you don’t like the opinions on an OPINION site go to another site. At least we get some varied opinions around here. Will, Taylor, Mande, and occasionally Liz.

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The_Future_of_Columbia May 13, 2015 at 9:03 am

So we are in agreement that this is another crappy article on a crappy website, at least?

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John May 12, 2015 at 5:13 pm

The Cosmo-ization of FITSNEWS continues. I think he realized that he can get more clicks for this shit then for the political news and gossip.

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GrandTango May 12, 2015 at 5:39 pm

More clicks and more D!*ks…since he’s admitting that he, and all liberals, are deficient with women…LMAO…

If he cannot win one team…maybe FITS should switch to a team where he can do better…LMAO…

We cannot tell him, and his minions, who to love…isn’t that what they are always SCREAMING!!!…….LMAO….

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John May 13, 2015 at 12:52 pm

Go away, please.

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He Knows His Audience May 12, 2015 at 6:23 pm

The vapid losers like GrandTango and Pogo go wild on any post so guaranteed clicks either way.

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 7:48 pm

Will be hearing from Taylor? — Mande? — Nikki?

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John May 13, 2015 at 12:51 pm

Or, better yet, seeing them? In low cut blouses?

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shifty henry May 13, 2015 at 1:41 pm

YES – PLEASE..!!

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mamatiger92 May 13, 2015 at 8:49 am

Hey, it’s better than Southern Charm updates.

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John May 13, 2015 at 12:47 pm

Maybe. Crazy drunk Tommy Ravenel is pretty funny to read about.

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GrandTango May 12, 2015 at 5:28 pm

LMAO…Liberals in a circular firing squad, outing yourselves for (admitting) your “shortcomings” …Hahahaha..

Remember that Penthouse editor who was fired for revealing that Liberal men are WAY overrated, and not good in bed..while Conservative men are so much better…

Like everything…you are failures….yet you see yourselves as the greatest…but you’re so limp in reality…

But don’t worry…so many of you orgasm over Obama F*#king you everyday…you don’t need a woman…LMAO….

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Tango Knows Women, Alright... May 12, 2015 at 6:07 pm

Tango has no game. His lying ass took a woman’s name he could hide behind on Facebook. She really was very impressed…NOT!
https://www.fitsnews.com/2014/11/04/massive-cyberattack-rocks-fits/

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GrandTango May 12, 2015 at 6:10 pm

Kooky-bitter much?….LMAO….

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Emily Should Sue May 12, 2015 at 6:33 pm Reply
Tango's A Douche May 12, 2015 at 6:45 pm

GrandTango is a man of questionable character, indeed.

GirlyTango May 12, 2015 at 10:20 pm

Well, I’ve heard of a boy named “Sue.”

mamatiger92 May 13, 2015 at 8:42 am

Wow. What a POS.

fc May 12, 2015 at 6:35 pm

Co-opting young women’s names. That’s kooky.

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Mobile "John" Holmes May 12, 2015 at 7:34 pm

Tango’s been gone over an hour now…must be pleasing every woman in the trailer park.

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Trapper May 12, 2015 at 5:40 pm

How ’bout YOU empty the dishwasher then fondle, then see what you got, hummm?

Work 40+, negotiate kiddie crises, change diapers, clean under the rim of the commode, put in a load of wash, etc., etc… then do a libido check – on yourself

The libido disparity is bound to balance out when you share life’s stresses!

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Freddy the Lobster May 12, 2015 at 8:46 pm

Damn straight!

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mamatiger92 May 13, 2015 at 8:36 am

preach!

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JHVS May 13, 2015 at 9:18 am

If you put out you might get some help.

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Trapper May 13, 2015 at 9:50 am

So you’d rather withhold SeX from your partner and claim neglect than free up her time and energies to devote to your shared love life?
Ugly, selfish, clod-like behaviour.

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Polar Bear May 12, 2015 at 5:44 pm

I heard a therapist on Johnny Carson many years ago claim, “Thirty minutes of sex is like jogging 5 miles”. I was about 18-19 at the time. Ever since I’ve tried to get in about 1 to 2 hours every chance I got. I’m old now, still have great blood pressure, flat stomach, maintain my college weight; but, can only get in about an hour now. Growing old is HELL!

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jimlewisowb May 12, 2015 at 6:20 pm

“can only get in about an hour now”

Point of clarification – how many times do you have to change hands?

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 7:47 pm

“Someday my Prince will come,” sayeth Snow White as she changed hands for the sixth time.

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 7:54 pm

Q. What do Disney World & Viagra have in common?
A. They both make you wait an hour for a two minute ride.

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TroubleBaby May 12, 2015 at 9:58 pm

“In the rare case the erection should last more than twenty-four hours, call a friend and brag about it.”-SNL, Dr. Porkenheimer’s Boner Juice

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shifty henry May 13, 2015 at 12:12 am

An old man woke up in the middle of the night and found, to his utter astonishment, that his pecker was as hard as a rock for the first time in three months. He shook his wife by the shoulder until she woke
up and showed her his enormous boner.

“You see that thing, woman?” he happily exclaimed. “What do you think we ought to do with it?”

With one eye open, his wife replied, “Well, now that you’ve got all the wrinkles out, this might be a good time to wash it.”

Lost in blogosphere May 12, 2015 at 5:45 pm

Excuse me, excuse me, did I accidentally stumble into HuffPo?

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jimlewisowb May 12, 2015 at 6:01 pm

“….Don’t expect.. in.. mood.. because.. felt them up while… emptying..dishwasher…”

Hey skippy, next time wait until she is bunked over the toilet cleaning up your failure to hit the target – guarantee that if you make your move at that moment you will have something to write about

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Rocky May 12, 2015 at 6:12 pm

Women are more likely to be in the mood in the afternoon. You want to get her in a revved up frame of mind – try 3:00 p.m.

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 7:45 pm

Well, everyone should know what’s better than a nooner….

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Rocky May 12, 2015 at 9:03 pm

I dunno – let’s ask Tango.

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 9:05 pm

— a ‘sooner’

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 7:59 pm

“He just kept rushing through the lovemaking, which is the part I like,
the beginning part. Most women are like that. We need time to warm up. Why is this hard for you guys to understand? You’re the first people to tell us not to gun a cold engine. You want us to go from zero to sixty in 5.5. We’re not built like that. We stall.”

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rocky's gay lover May 12, 2015 at 8:09 pm

Is that why you post on Fits at 3:00 everyday?

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Rocky May 12, 2015 at 9:03 pm

Like

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 8:15 pm

Ole comes home unexpectedly at 3:00 in the afternoon.
Lena is laying naked on the bed
Ole “Lena vhat you doing, lying there naked on the bed”?
Lena “Ole I have nothing to wear”.
Ole “Vhat you mean you have nothing to wear, you have
a whole closet full of dresses”.
Ole opens the closet door.
Ole “See, here’s one dress, two dress, three dress
“Hello Lars”, four dress, five dress”.

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Sailor May 12, 2015 at 7:19 pm

Now that we have Will’s opinion, maybe he should have Mrs. Fits write a guest column to express her views on the subject.

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Mom May 12, 2015 at 7:21 pm

Leave that poor lady alone! She already has to live with Mr. Fits! ;-)

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 7:44 pm

Shifty abstains on this motion!

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Mom May 12, 2015 at 7:19 pm

REALLY! You’re quoting Cosmopolitan now. Same articles in every issue for 40 years.

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Squishy123 May 12, 2015 at 7:44 pm

Simple solution, give her a vibrator and a 25 minute headstart.

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shifty henry May 12, 2015 at 8:02 pm

How to prove that the woman enjoys sex more than the man. When
your ear itches and you put your little finger in and wiggle it around and take it out again, what feels better – your finger or your ear?

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TontoBubbaGoldstein May 12, 2015 at 7:48 pm

The marriage therapist told the husband and wife they should use a non-verbal “code” to communicate with each other whether or not they were “in the mood”.

The wife thought for a minute and then told her husband, “If you don’t want sex…gently squeeze my arm. If you want sex …just rub against my breasts.”

“Got it.” replied her husband. “If you want sex…just pull my dick once. If you don’t want sex…

….

pull on it about 120 times!”

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You Know My Name May 12, 2015 at 7:52 pm

That’s why it is good to have a wife or girlfriend who is bi. They can get each other in the mood while you watch and your libido grows to superhuman proportions. After you’ve shot your wad and need a few minutes to recharge, watching this should expedite your charge rate greatly.

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TontoBubbaGoldstein May 12, 2015 at 7:53 pm

Around Tango’s trailer, “loading the dishwasher” means getting mamma drunk.

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Rocky Gayye May 12, 2015 at 8:05 pm

Word is you are a queer.i love a really queer homo like you.

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Rocky May 12, 2015 at 8:26 pm

Good evening Flip!

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V.Terf Raud May 12, 2015 at 8:53 pm

Only contributor I know that lives with ‘mamma’-per Boz himself-is Boz himself.

Apparently has not held a regular job for years…yet tells The Sun News he lives in Murrells Inlet AND rents a ‘place’ in Myrtle Beach?

Now why in the fuck would you say you live with ‘mamma’ and at the same time rent a place in Myrtle Beach?

Maybe the place in MB had a better ‘dishwasher’? LMAO…

Martin, who lives in the Horry County part of Murrells Inlet and rents a place to live in Myrtle Beach part of the year…

Read more here: http://www.myrtlebeachonline.com/incoming/article16615442.html#storylink=cpy

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Waccamaw Neck May 13, 2015 at 5:03 am

I have known that family for 40 yrs. They live in Georgetown county not Horry. If Buz was living mainly in a rental in his home town Myrtle Beach that was a few years when she was better able to take care of herself. Now she is not. She is almost 90 years old and is a disabled widow. I am sure you would stick your mother in some nursing home to be cared for by strangers and possibly abused. We are talking about real people known to many and who have done much for the community. you are a 1000 different names on a computer screen who pretends to be Christian but really only uses that as an excuse to hate. could be ISIS for all we know. Do you understand why people think even less of you than of Grand Tango?

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Dean Wormer May 13, 2015 at 6:04 am

Yet he spends all day and night on the internet and Fits?
So he lives in Georgetown County…,however votes in HORRY County?Thanks.

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Waccamaw Neck May 13, 2015 at 8:00 am

You seem to be on FITS constantly yourself and so does your playmate. He no longer votes in Horry County. More lies from you.

pogo2 May 13, 2015 at 8:34 am

Morning Flip!

fc May 13, 2015 at 9:05 am

Why you always calling me out?Spend a whole ten seconds on creating these ingenious fake accounts.These liberal perverts on this site could never figure out it’s me.

GrandTango May 13, 2015 at 7:37 am

Spin it, bro…spin it. A True Obama-Clinton Democrat…you are…

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Waccamaw Neck May 13, 2015 at 8:05 am

Proud Tea Party Republican here and county GOP EC. Nikki Haley fan too. I don’t like the things he says about her and think it is kind of racist. Does not mean I want to support the spreading of lies and hate about good people the way you do. if his mother died you and togo would claim he killed her and demand an autopsy.

Elmer Fudd May 13, 2015 at 8:37 am

You are a fucking psycho.

fc May 13, 2015 at 8:47 am

Boz Martin on September 15, 2010 at 04:28 said:

Erm. Sorry about all the typos and incoherencies in that post. Up in the middle of the night posting. Never a good thing. I’d like to add that I fully understand the distrust that many feel for the Tea Party people. If I didn’t know a lot of the local ones personally, I too might feel that they are all a bunch of cretins.

Are you a ‘cretin’? LMAO!!!!!

fc May 13, 2015 at 9:16 am

Boz says the MB Tea Party is illegal? Are you illegal? What does that mean?

Who is ‘We The People of South Carolina’?

fc May 13, 2015 at 9:18 am

“I may be tilting at windmills, but it’s not the first time. These people are slime, and they must not prevail.”

Boz says you are ‘slime’…are you slime? LMAO!!!!

fc May 13, 2015 at 8:45 am

Boz Martin on September 15, 2010 at 04:28 said:

Erm. Sorry about all the typos and incoherencies in that post. Up in the middle of the night posting. Never a good thing. I’d like to add that I fully understand the distrust that many feel for the Tea Party people. If I didn’t know a lot of the local ones personally, I too might feel that they are all a bunch of cretins.

Bet the ‘GOP EC’ is proud of lying for Boz this morning.

fc May 13, 2015 at 9:14 am

From: Buz Martin (buzmartin)8/4/13 2:28 PM To: JRichards /rw (JRichards33) (5 of 8) 14.5 in reply to 14.4 That pretty much sums it up these days. Except that in seeking to be obstructionists to Obama’s agenda, they are trying to stage a hostile takeover of the GOP. Some think they have succeeded, but the truth is, there is much resistance. Not enough in South Carolina, though (or North Carolina either), and that’s part of the point of the Note.

In SC and much of the Southeast, the “BlueDog” Dems are still pretty powerful. They are mostly white conserative Dems of the kind that were once known as DixieCrats. They are socially conservative but fiscally liberal. Much like the “RINOs” the TP seems to hate so much. The BlueDoggers and RINOs are the ones who keep Graham in office, and who installed Rice for the “Myrtle Beach Mafia.”

I believe that there is not as much distance between the BlueDog/RINO coalition and the TPers at this time as there was before the last election. They are forging a new alliance, even as there is much quawking from the mainstreamers about a TP takeover. I believe a deal has been brokered in SC, and that is why this story gets no traction.

Newspapers such as the Sun News and The State are not as “liberal” as many would have us believe. They are ignoring the illegal nature of the MB Tea Party and how it could impact the lawsuit against the IRS.

Bottom line on this: The IRS went after these groups when many of them were not even legal. We have much proof of this, some of it has been linked in that Note and earlier posts on We The People of South Carolina.

Just as with the clear proof of conflicts of interest and crony capitalist opportunism in “Project Blue” in Myrtle Beach, the mainstream press is ignoring information they have. You may recall that they basically knee-capped Gloria Tinubu in that way, and said that she was using dirty tricks in bringing forth damaging information — information which they knew to be absolutely true.

The political machine in Horry, SC7 and the state of SC is very complicated, and consists of corrupt coalitions, composed of people who seem to be at odds. It’s hard to cut through all of that, to see the truth. But when you do see it, it’s mind-boggling.

I may be tilting at windmills, but it’s not the first time. These people are slime, and they must not prevail.

Boz says the MB Tea Party is ‘illegal’? What does that mean? And they are defending him?

GrandTango May 13, 2015 at 9:31 am

Thanks. Why are so many of them liars about who, and what, they are?

fc May 13, 2015 at 9:33 am

Liberalism is a lie.Natural ‘evolution’. :)

mamatiger92 May 13, 2015 at 10:28 am

Says the guy who stole someone’s name and created a fake FB profile? Are you kidding me?

FB Clown May 13, 2015 at 3:14 pm

Hey, Boz uses his real name. You??

GrandTango May 13, 2015 at 3:48 pm

He used Mark Kelley’s real name too…you F*#king idiot…LMAO….
I bet your friends rue the day met your Stupid @$$…don’t they???…LMAO…

GrandTango May 13, 2015 at 7:36 am

In this economy, a lot of people are having to do things they would not normally have to do…It’s miserable…Obama has damaged America, severely. especially our economy.

But for Boz to preach and attack everyone and everything as viciously as he does…it’s kind of startling to learn that he has to depend on his mother to subsist…

But that is typical liberal for you. They can tell you how to do it…but are lost when it comes to providing for themselves, or anyone else….

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Limbaughsaphatkhunt May 12, 2015 at 8:49 pm

Shocking….you mean men want sex more than women? I can’t believe it. How is it this is first time I’ve ever heard about this?

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GrandTango May 13, 2015 at 8:27 am

In your case…NO need for explanation….LMAO…

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Todd May 12, 2015 at 11:05 pm

Secret to making her want it all the time: stop caring about her needs. It makes you appear submissive, and therefore unsexy. Todd’s woman can’t get enough Todd.

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Uh huh May 13, 2015 at 8:36 am

Aren’t you the guy that used to suck dicks?

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mamatiger92 May 13, 2015 at 8:37 am

I think he’s asking you out, Todd.

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Uh huh May 13, 2015 at 1:07 pm

It’s not “flip”. Really, it’s serious question. Some poster named “Todd” came on a few months ago and said he used to suck dick but he’s hetero/married now.

I’m wondering if he’s the same “Todd”.

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GrandTango May 13, 2015 at 8:20 am

Interesting how liberals spend so much time worrying aboyt how repulsive you are…while you’re ignorant to all the abortion, cancer-causing STDs and AIDS you are responsible for…

Clue: stop being self-centered. ..but that means abandoning your religion of liberalism, of course. …

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Toyota Kawaski May 13, 2015 at 8:52 am

Welcome Back Liz!!! Great Story

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Married and practical May 13, 2015 at 10:23 am

Gotta say, putting that wedding ring on her finger will instantly cut down on sex by half. Having the first kid, by another half. Both working to pay the mortgage, by another half.

The same people who were going all night long when they first started dating become people who schedule sex after the kids finally go to bed. They can try to have the same “game” as they used to but the circumstances are just different.

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mamatiger92 May 13, 2015 at 11:13 am

Quality over quantity is the key ;)

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