POLICE: AUDIO FILE AMONG “TREASURE TROVE” OF EVIDENCE …
|| By FITSNEWS || Sheriff’s deputies in Lexington County, S.C. have obtained extensive documentation of the domestic drama that has engulfed former S.C. “Republican” party official Todd Kincannon and his wife, Ashely Griffith.
And it isn’t pretty …
Kincannon – the self-described “honey badger of American politics” – saw his marital issues explode onto the national stage last week. Specifically, Lexington police responded to a bizarre incident in which he is accused of threatening Griffith and physically grabbing her so as to prevent her from escaping his vehicle. According to a police report, Kincannon – whose deliberately provocative social media presence has made him a pariah to the far left – also made threats to kill himself, Griffith and her family.
As a result of this incident, deputies are in process of determining whether to press kidnapping charges against Kincannon – a prominent local attorney.
Kincannon claims he doesn’t remember last week’s incident – citing an “accidental overdose” of the prescription drug Benzonatate (which he says he took to help him deal with an upper respiratory infection).
Of course Griffith told police Kincannon “has made several threats in the past to kill himself, her, and her family” – and that she had preserved recordings of several such threats.
Kincannon has yet to account for that allegation.
Now a source close to the investigation tells FITS that more than forty-eight hours of such recordings exist – as well as photographic evidence of possible domestic abuse sustained by Griffith.
“Its a treasure trove,” the source told FITS.
In one of the clips – obtained exclusively by FITS – Kincannon tells Griffith he will have his “revenge” on her if she leaves him, and that he will make her “very f*cking sorry” if she fails to follow his instructions for improving their marriage.
The profanity-laced clip begins with Kincannon castigating Griffith for not “doing what you’re supposed to f*cking do.”
“Now I’m going to tell you right now – I can’t survive in this f*cking environment that you create with your bad attitude and your unhappy spirit,” Kincannon said. “I’m – I’m sick of it and I’m done with it. And I want to make very clear to you – I don’t give a sh*t about you, or about any of the sh*t in your life. I don’t give a sh*t about all your f*cking divorce threats. You have pushed me so far down the hole that I don’t care any more.”
Wow …
“What I’m telling you is – you are going to by God make my life better than it is,” Kincannon continued. “And you’re going to do the only things that you can do to do that – or else I’m going to make you very f*cking sorry. Because I don’t give a sh*t anymore.”
Kincannon repeats the threat again on the recording – which is essentially a monologue of his thoughts on the current status of his marriage to Griffith.
“I don’t know why you don’t just let the relationship dissolve,” Griffith said at one point in the clip.
“Because I blame you for creating the problems,” Kincannon responded. “And if the relationship dissolves I will get my revenge. I wanted something out of this.”
“I got into this marriage with expectations that it would be a thing that it is not,” Kincannon continued. “And I am telling you right now, you will cure that problem and you will begin to meet my expectations or else you will be very sorry with what happens next.”
Again, wow …
To listen to the clip (which is “Not Safe For Work” due to language), click on the far left of the sound bar below …
To download the clip, click on the button below …
One of Kincannon’s friends – another prominent local attorney in Columbia, S.C. – tells FITS the threats against Griffith have nothing to do with physical violence.
“She knows what that’s referring to,” the attorney told us, adding the recording is “being taken completely out of context if the presumption is that he’s making a threat of bodily harm.”
The attorney added that Kincannon and Griffith have both “sparred” in the past – and that he has preserved evidence of abuse sustained by her hand.
“There are no innocents in this relationship,” the attorney told us.
Additionally, the attorney said Griffith was “not cooperating” with the sheriff’s investigation – and considering a request from Kincannon to amend the statement she provided police last week.
Hmmmmm ….
This website has always liked both Kincannon and Griffith. They are incredibly smart, talented people – and we hate to see their relationship unravel like this.
Our hope? That both are able to extricate themselves from what is obviously a toxic relationship without things escalating to a dangerous place …
Live and let live, in other words …
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STOP THE PRESSES: Someone said something mean to their spouse during a fight towards the end of the marriage.
It isn’t a surprise but that doesn’t make it any less entertaining.
If there is 48 hours of this and threats of death and suicide and photos of physical abuse….it is far worse than just saying something mean to your spouse during a fight.
True. I missed the alleged death threats to the family. Still have to wonder what’s going on when the wife is sitting around recording fights with her husband, which, based on the text from that one recording, looks like she possibly tried to start.
Yeah, it’s weird that she would gather evidence to protect her herself just in case her lunatic lawyer husband ever went postal and decided to make her “very f***ing sorry”. What was she thinking? (Obviously this 25 year old trophy wife is smarting than you.)
I think what he’s trying to say that(although I should really let him do that, but I digress) is that it’s strange that someone would claim fear yet sit and build a library of recorded threats/arguments.
It’s hard to sell “fear” when that’s the case, ya know?
I agree with you that it’s “smart” for her to record these rants for proceedings and such, but it kinda destroys any suggestion that there was genuine fear from said threats if there’s a literal library of these recordings. I could understand one, maybe two of said recordings…but if it’s a pattern that tells me she definitely wasn’t afraid.
To Jackies point, people say a lot of shitty things to each other when a marriage is failing, and I’d wager that 50% of the time they don’t mean the things they say. (and this isn’t an endorsement of any such behavior)
If The victim wants law enforcement or the courts to help, the victim must document the abuse. She will get no help without the documentation.
Wouldn’t it make more sense to leave and be safe rather than risk documentation for court vindication?
Have you read none of this? “Leave and be safe” wasn’t an option without involving the authorities. Involving the authorities required evidence. It’s really not that hard to understand. I’m amazed by how many men on this forum do backflips of logic to somehow blame the woman.
“Have you read none of this? “Leave and be safe” wasn’t an option without involving the authorities.”
Seriously, what the hell are you talking about? Was the above recording made while he was “squeezing her arm”?
No, in fact in the very write up you claim I haven’t read there is the disclosure of 48 hours worth of arguments.
48 HOURS!!!!
Was he pinning her down that entire time?
Look, I’m not defending someone who is clearly an abusive control freak, so don’t get me wrong- but I’m just saying, like almost every fracturing marriage-there is responsibility to go around for the failure and I’m not buying this notion that she was constantly living in fear.
In fact, it seems to me that she was building a case, not in fear for her life.
She was building a case BECAUSE she was in fear of her life IF she left. As long as she STAYED she wasn’t afraid of him killing her and her family, but as he threatened to do that if she LEFT, the act of leaving would be the trigger for her fear. Do you understand? In order to leave safely, she needed evidence. Comprende?
” Do you understand? ”
I understand fully. You are an idiot.
She doesn’t need evidence to leave safely. That’s bullshit.
Even further, has her evidence landed him in jail or even produced a TRO? No.
If she was scared, 48 hours worth of recording, which probably took months to create, has done nothing at this point is time to further her safety and if she truly was afraid(which I doubt), all it did was unnecessarily imperil her.
Again, just so we’re clear, this is no defense for Todd Kincannon who is clearly an abusive control freak.
People blame the women accusing Bill Cosby for having no evidence. Now Ashley is blamed for getting a bunch of it. Seems that abused women, whatever the nature of the abuse, are in a damned-if-you-do, damned-if-you-don’t situation.
I’m not “blaming her” Buz. I think she did the right thing by documenting it.
I just think that it’s preposterous for her to claim that she was in fear.
Please don’t put words into my proverbial mouth.
Your mouth is from a proverb?
She’s smart. She’s going to bat against a lawyer.
He looks sooo wimpy and girlish. She should just kick his ass and tell him what’s what. The men that talk about being bullied by this guy are pathetic.
Exactly.
It makes sense that someone trapped in a controlling marriage would document the abuse as part of their escape process.
Speaking as a woman, harrassment is extraordinarily difficult to prove and usually comes down to a he said/she said type of scenario. Given he is an attorney, e.g., “credible”, I would think she did what she needed to do to build a case.
This is fascinating to watch unfold. It’s obvious that this website has more at stake in this case than just “reporting” and it’s using this forum to communicate with Todd that he can’t win and should walk away and let it go. It looks as if FITS has become the communication tool for Ashely and Todd. Will Todd realize he’s dug too big a hole to worm his way out of? Will Ashely not press kidnapping charges if he signs divorce papers and lets it all go? Tune in tomorrow for the next exciting episode of “Days of Their Lives.”
Or .. As The Douchenozzle Turns.
Or “Spews”
Listening to this is rich considering the hateful shit this loser puts on Twitter. If he wants to make your life worse, make his worse. Much worse.
Ironically, he used to brag on Twitter about all the pro bono work he has done for abused women and children. Which reminds me … thank God there are no children involved.
And his claim to have put dozens of sex offenders behind bars??? He has NEVER been a prosecutor.
It makes you wonder about all his “I win this argument because my wife is hot” antics. In hindsight, does he now lose all those arguments?
I’ll bet he only did pro bono work with the attractive ones.
Yeah, but that’s called “pro boner” work.
She is definitely not ugly.
But he sure is!
I would date her but only after he commits suicide or lands in jail.
So, you’re free for Easter Sunday?
Haha! Fingers crossed!
She looks pretty hot for that dweeb.
Prominent attorney??? He is NOT a prominent attorney.
http://hellogiggles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/18/Do-not-think-it-means.jpeg
I think FITS meant “prominent clown and douche bag” because he’s held in about the lowest esteem by members of the bar.
In SC, clowns and douche bags are the prominent citizens.
A kakocracy
Ah, so he’s suitable to become a Lexington County magistrate….
That made me smile too. But maybe Todd convinced the publisher he is! :)
Who in the hell would publish anything he produced. Seriously, did he have a contract? Or was that a lie?
Oh TK has a whole bunch of idiot friends who think he’s just the greatest. Mind you, we’re not talking about the top of the food chain, if you get my drift. :)
It’s one of those “self-published” books. Which he asked others to “contribute” to help “defray” his legal costs. Which doesn’t seem to square up with the fabulous law practice he claims to enjoy.
https://bonnierussell.wordpress.com/2015/01/16/todd-kincannon-the-mouth-is-closed/
and here.
http://legalinsurrection.com/2014/07/south-carolina-licensing-officials-accused-of-suppressing-lawyers-1st-amendment-rights/
In typical Todd Kincannon fashion, he blames everyone but himself.
****Rick James voice***
“Benzonatate is a powerful drug.”
Beeatch!!
Todd has a friend? He would have to be as big a douchebag as Todd in that case and I would give him zero credence.
Seriously, why don’t you name one SMART thing Todd has done? Trolling people on the internet is not smart. Eleven year olds do it all the time while playing Call of Duty and grandmas do it on Tea Party sites. He is not a smart or competent lawyer. He is a bully and it is about to all catch up to him.
Hearing this it sounds like he’s tired of her emotional swings, is she bipolar? It always takes two to argue and at least he’s talking, seems to me she’s set him up, meaning she’s controlling the situation. All she had to do is get him wound up and turn in the recorder. Women can be decious too.
She MIGHT be devious and MAY have had an agenda, or she MIGHT be an innocent victim you MAY be smart enough to protect herself with evidence. He IS an asshole and he DID threaten her on tape. There’s no question about his character. Hers is still unknown.
None of which condones the threats made.
There’s an old bumper sticker – Somewhere, there’s Someone Sick of Her Crap. Nonetheless – his actions clearly suggest this is a couple that shouldn’t be.
The Root of Women’s Problems
——————————————
MEN tal illness
MEN strual cramps
MEN tal breakdown
MEN opause
GUY necologist………………….
And when there is real trouble, it’s a HIS terectomy.
Ever notice how all of women’s problems start with men?
“prominent attorney” BAHAHA. He has a hole in the wall office on St Andrews Rd. Anyone who can stay on Twitter day and night ain’t billing too many clients. Well, ain’t billing them legitimately.
A lawyer shows up at the pearly gates and St. Peter says, “Normally, we don’t let you people in here, but you’re in luck. We have a special this week. You go to Hell for the length of time you were alive, then you get to come back to Heaven for eternity.”
The lawyer says, “I’ll take the deal!”
St. Peter says, “Good, I’ll put you down for two hundred and twelve years in Hell…”
The lawyer says, “What are you talking about? I’m only sixty-five years old!”
St. Peter says, “Up here we go by billing hours.”
Shifty, you think that’s a joke, but I know that fucking lawyer!
At the height of a political corruption trial, the prosecuting attorney attacked a witness. “Isn’t it true,” he bellowed, “that you accepted five thousand dollars to compromise this case?”
The witness stared out the window, as though he hadn’t heard the question.
“Isn’t it true that you accepted five thousand dollars to compromise this case?” the lawyer repeated.
The witness still did not respond.
Finally, the judge leaned over and said, “Sir, please answer the question.”
“Oh,” the startled witness said, “I thought he was talking to
you.”
What’s the difference between a lawyer and a rooster?
When a rooster wakes up in the morning, its primal urge is to cluck defiance.
All of my dealings with attorneys over the years were with professional, knowledgeable, straight-forward, competent folks. That is with the exception of two, one of which I gave testimony on behalf of a defendant prosecuted by Donnie Myers (he probably still hates me for showing him up as a fool) with the defendant acquitted of all felony charges. The other was a mistake in engaging an attorney in a personal matter, and whom could have been fucking the opposing attorney and billing me for the time (I wished I could have proven that!)
You dolts HATE me for blocking vulgar language w/ symbols…Now FITS is copying me and you’re sucking his D!*k for it…
Not at all GT. From what I see, people hate you for way more than that.
Hilarious
Good point…I’m not a lockstep, Democrat Dumb@$$ like you and/or FITS…
You work for FitsNews, dipshit.
And that’s what really p! $$#$ you off….isn’t it?
Thanks for admitting it, dumb fuck.
I’m the one who told you Dumb@$$…I said sometime ago, more people read what I have to say about FITS, than read his predictable tripe…
You’re not that F*#king Stupid, are you?…. (no need to answer)….
Oh I disagree. Most people read the articles and look for the chick pics. Then they read BubbaTangosUnglyDog, Smirks, Rocky (aka Rock Obama), our new resident conservative with a clean mouth Pineapple Twist and of course, the revered and beloved Colonel. They just look up your posts to see you get your ass kicked. And be offended.
For all – this was just a quick list, and I apologize for any I have left off as readable and engaging, Including JimLewis, TontoBubba, Buz, Shifty and Jackie and others. Been a busy day, had one call after the other with negotiators in Switzerland.
Yeah, sure….And Ravenel’s polling at 17%…Tom Ervin is really a Republican…and the Nov. 4 @$$-kickin’ you got…really meant everybody LOVES Obama..LMAO…
What you have to swallow to be a liberal Dumb!$$…Hahahaha..
Those Republicans beat there wives too?
I’m proud of you man, moving up in the world. Even if Will pays you minimum wage, better than what you were making with your old blog.
ahhh once again..the inevitable sucking dick reference..for the love of God idiot..just come out of the closet already.
You seem to be fixated on it…Like Pavlov’s dog, you come running at every reference, w/ your tongue hanging…
You sure it’s not you ashamed of who, and what, you are???…LMAO….????
Jenny & Mark & Candace & Thad & Kelly & Richard & Belen & Mark & Ashely & Todd & … love is a many splendored thing and when it isn’t: Fits has all the details.
This dumbass got a skunk confused for a honey badger. What a sad little bitch this dude is.
Ashley is way too hot for an ugly douchebag like that. Sad story.
So you’re saying an ugly girl would have to put up with someone like him?
Lordy Lordy.
Ralph and Edna were both patients in a mental hospital. One day while they were walking past the hospital swimming pool, Ralph suddenly jumped into the deep end. He sank to the bottom of the pool and stayed there..
Edna promptly jumped in to save him. She swam to the bottom and pulled him out. When the Head Nurse Director became aware of Edna’s heroic act she immediately ordered her to be discharged from the hospital, as she now considered her to be mentally stable.
When she went to tell Edna the news she said, ‘Edna, I have good news and bad news. The good news is you’re being discharged, since you were able to rationally respond to a crisis by jumping in and saving the life of the person you love.. I have concluded that your act displays sound mindedness.
The bad news is, Ralph hung himself in the bathroom with his bathrobe belt right after you saved him. I am so sorry, but he’s dead.’
Edna replied, ‘He didn’t hang himself, I put him there to dry.. How soon can I go home?’
It was one of the most gruesome cases ever to come before the court, and if found guilty, the defendant would spend the rest of life behind bars. The case had not been proceeding well for the defense.
Though there was no direct evidence, the circumstantial evidence was
quite compelling. The only chance the lawyer had was to cast some doubt in the minds of the jurors. His only hope was to attack the testimony of the medical examiner.
Lawyer) “And prior to declaring the victim dead, did you check his pulse?”
Doctor) “No.
Lawyer) “Did you perform CPR?”
Doctor) “No.”
Lawyer) “Did you do anything to determine if the victim was still alive prior to declaring him dead?”
Doctor) “No.”
Lawyer) “Then, Doctor, isn’t it possible that prior to your declaring the victim dead that, in fact he may have been alive, and that it was your negligence that caused the death?”
Doctor) “Aside from the fact that his brain was in a jar on my desk,
I suppose he could have been out practicing law.”
Did she not read his Twitter posts before she married him?
read twitter posts…heck according to Toadie Todd she did three ways with him.
His voice is really annoying.
He reminds me of O J Simpson. If she doesn’t leave, especially after all this negative press, she will probably end up like O J’s wife. He probably needs to go to therapy or rehab. and get on some serious meds.
Todd is the poster boy for why home schooling is a bad idea. He never learned to get along with others. I wonder what his dear mother thinks about all of this?
She probably thinks she shouda used better birth control.
She’s as nutty as he is. Their bullying ways when she was head of Greenville DDSN Board brought about an unprecedented action: the county board was dissolved and the state took over operations.
Fortunately, he’s an only child.
If she doesnt leave him, she’s nuts.
There is talk that he may be disbarred.
What are the rules about that? Is it a ‘conduct unbecoming’ type thing?
Well criminal charges of this sort will definitely get you suspended or worse.
(c) Action by Disciplinary Counsel. Upon receiving competent evidence that a lawyer has been charged or convicted of a crime, disciplinary counsel shall determine whether the crime involved is a serious crime as defined by Rule 2(aa). If the crime is a serious crime, disciplinary counsel may seek an interim suspension under Rule 17(a) if the lawyer has been charged with a serious crime, and shall seek an interim suspension under Rule 17(a) if the lawyer has been convicted of a serious crime. If the crime is not a serious crime, disciplinary counsel shall process the matter in the same manner as any other information coming to the attention of the Commission.
(aa) Serious Crime: any felony; any lesser crime that reflects adversely on the lawyer’s honesty, trustworthiness or fitness as a lawyer in other respects; or, any crime a necessary element of which, as determined by the statutory or common law definition of the crime, involves interference with the administration of justice, false swearing, misrepresentation, fraud, deceit, bribery, extortion, misappropriation, theft, willful failure to file income tax returns, or an attempt, conspiracy or solicitation of another to commit a serious crime.
(a) Grounds for Discipline. It shall be a ground for discipline for a lawyer to:
(1) violate or attempt to violate the Rules of Professional Conduct, Rule 407, SCACR, or any other rules of this jurisdiction regarding professional conduct of lawyers;
(2) engage in conduct violating applicable rules of professional conduct of another jurisdiction;
(4) be convicted of a crime of moral turpitude or a serious crime;
(5) engage in conduct tending to pollute the administration of justice or to bring the courts or the legal profession into disrepute or conduct demonstrating an unfitness to practice law;
I believe he is already under investigation for the bringing the legal profession into disrepute or conduct demonstrating an unfitness to practice law–though as someone else pointed out, his complaint in the Reed v Wells Fargo case also admits that he deposited client funds in his operating account rather than his trust, a suspendable offense.
Hey Todd, if the lawyering thing doesn’t work out, heard Amazon is hiring.
The GrandTurnip could use an intern. They both speak the same language….
Nah. How long does it take to Investigate a bank transfer. The SC Bar already let him slide.
FYI…in SC, the entity that investigates lawyer conduct is a division of our Judicial Dept, not the Bar Association.
Apologize for the delay in responding. Computer experienced a mid-life crisis.
As for your response, my bad. Meant the State Bar, the duly formed PR entity and attorney facilitator for for lobbying legislators. Am aware Bar Associations are local networking clubs with an occasional pro bono case thrown in.
Did a quick Bing–can’t believe how many results, including the business with the Commission on Lawyer Conduct, the Office of Disciplinary Counsel, and on and on. Looks like some, erm, interesting reading. Thanks for your replies Steve.
Where do I go if I have a problem with things he did as my attorney. I checked with the Bar and there were no complaints listed. Didn’t know there was another source.
Ya’ll know SC enjoys the second highest husband killing their wives rate, in the country? News to me. But the comments below are pretty dismissive, so that makes sense.
https://bonnierussell.wordpress.com/2015/04/01/todd-kincannon-wife-tape-hours-of-threats/
We’ve been #1 since 2014, Bless your heart.
LOL Why thank you. Thank you kindly, very much.
I wish I could sit on the porch with you and sip some sweet tea. :)
I can’t get past the fact that he found someone to marry him. For real. Who thinks that way?
SCBW, we agree on that! Partisanship dissolves when something like this pops up. In that spirit, I am extending an olive branch to you.
What sort of response did he expect to his threats? Did he think she would say, “Todd, from this moment on, I’ll follow every instruction and rule you lay down, master.” I predict this is the only marriage he will ever have. Twenty years from now, he will wonder why he threw away the best thing that ever looked his way.
Well, in my case the ex-spouse who filed for divorce to bluff me into walking three paces behind him and called me the night before a child support hearing, whispering over and over “You’re going to lose” and came unglued when someone else sent me roses, etc etc etc , DID find someone to marry him and these days she’s changing his diapers while I live at the beach. Life.
Never ceases to amaze me (and it really should by now).
>Kincannon – whose deliberately provocative social media
>presence has made him a pariah to the far left
Maybe it’s time to re-calibrate your political compass. Kincannon is a pariah to the far-left, the center-left, the middle, and the center-right. Todd’s remaining supporters are the far-right, reactionary, Christianist, cave-men who would like to drag us back to the dark-ages, and even that crowd is starting to raise an eyebrow at this maniac’s antics.
I hope she gets out alive. He’s a control freak, and he’s armed.
I think all 23 of his supporters are probably dicks too…
Mike…where ya been man?
I’m around, just traveling a bit for work and busy…not sure calling people “dicks” qualifies as wisdom, though! ;-)
Maybe when you play a crazy person on the Net it’s a bit harder to see when you are really tipping at the edge.
Didn’t seem all that threatening or interesting to me. Just sounds like two miserable people.
Where’s the juicy stuff?
this asshat is a huge douche
I almost ran over Todd when we were at Erskine. I’m sorry for not ridding the world of that piece of shit when I had the chance.
They both seem to be suffering from low IQ syndrome. Let’s hope they don’t reproduce.
Why would a decent girl marry this creep? Does she have parents? If my daughter was involved with this ass I’d make her dump him. What did she want with him?
He’s a frigging lawyer. She probably thought he had money.
She has been a plaintiff in a lot of his lawsuits…either he forced her to or she gladly did it.
Maybe they can’t afford Dish TV so she entertains herself picking her nose and recording fights.
When do we get to hear the other 48 hours of nothing? I want it and I want it now!
Seems to me his revenge would be if she stays married to this jerk. What could be worse?
Wait, did this article just call Todd Kincannon a prominent attorney? Of all the horseshit fits has tried to feed us – THAT takes the cake!
There could never be enough money in the WORLD, to let that fat psycho slob lay on top of me!
A kid comes home from school with a writing assignment. He asks his father for help. “Dad, can you tell me the difference between potential and reality?”
His father looks up, thoughtfully, and then says, “I’ll demonstrate. Go
ask your mother if she would sleep with George Clooney for a million dollars. Then go ask your sister if she would sleep with Brad Pitt for a million dollars. Then come back and tell me what you’ve learned.”
The kid is puzzled, but decides to ask his mother. “Mom, if someone gave you a million dollars, would you sleep with George Clooney?”
“Don’t tell your father, but yes, I would,” she replies.
He then goes to his sister’s room. “Sis, if someone gave you a million
dollars, would you sleep with Brad Pitt?”
She replies, “Omigod! Definitely!”
The kid goes back to his father. “Dad, I think I’ve figured it out.
Potentially, we are sitting on two million dollars, but in reality, we are
living with two sluts
LOLOL
Is this because he is White?? Nobody seems to care when a prominent black wealthy celebrity threatens and/or physically beats their spouse!
Psychosis alert !!! This man has run amuck.
This is a perfect example of the difference between the priorities of men and women, generally. A man’s priority is to have sex with a beautiful lady. A woman’s priority is to impress other women. Generally, they impress other women by having material things but it goes beyond that. Women also covet other women who have a man that is in a position of power (or, in this case, a perceived position of power). Men are willing to overlook certain things when prioritizing, like whining, nagging and dealing with emotional issues to which they cannot relate. Women are able to overlook things as well when they are prioritizing like the fact that their guy is gross and meat necked. If all women were fat and ugly and all men were poor and powerless, humans would die out. So, if a relationship like the one between these people don’t have love and companionship to fall back on, after a while the woman will quit having sex with the man and the man will tell her to get a job. Thus, the things that these folks were willing to overlook in the beginning because of these priorities, they will no longer overlook. If Todd tells Ashely to go out and get a job to supply herself with those things that impress other women, the Ashely’s mentality is “What the hell am I doing with the slob if he can’t satisfy my priority.” If Ashely quits having sex and amps up the whining, nagging and bitchery, then Todd’s mentality is “What the hell am I doing putting up with all this shit if she can’t satisfy my priority.” Lesson to be learned: marriage based on sex, money and perceived prominence alone will fail, Just like this one.
You are so full of shit.
I have handled over 180 divorce cases as an attorney. I’m just relaying what I’ve seen. Not all cases are the same but this is common theme and Todd and Ashely’s case has this written all over it.
Well, I think you’re generalizing based on a bad sample. To say the priorities of men and women “generally” are so shallow and cynical is a very dark view of human nature. Maybe you should find a new line of work, or a new circle of influence, before your soul is totally blackened. You may be right about this couple, but to say ALL men and women are generally like that is ignorant and insulting.
Actually I wasn’t the first to say this, Freud was but my main point was to say that if you don’t have love and companionship to fall back on and you marry for sex, money or power, then your marriage is going to fail. I’m sorry if that insults you. And for the record, when someone says “generally” that is a way of saying that not ALL cases are like that. I very clearly said that it was a generalization, which always has faults. The words “all” and “generally” are contradictory. Look into it.
Successful long marriages come from the notion that “I love you in spite of” rather than “I love you because.” If a person’s ability to overlook their spouse’s faults is based on power, money or sex they will come to the point where they cannot overlook them. The feelings and priorities that help initiate a relationship will not sustain a long marriage. The hope is that what attracts us to a potential spouse initially will evolve into unconditional love. If it doesn’t evolve and the foundation of the marriage continues to be those things that initially attracted the two, the marriage will likely fail. Men and women have different priorities when they are looking for a mate. If you don’t believe that then you my friend are the ignorant one.
Generally, all divorce attorney’s are slimy liars.
Well then hopefully your relationship is actually fortified by love and you’ll never need one. Otherwise just keep putting out or paying out and I’ll give you a free consult when the “I told you so” moment happens.
Generally, birds can fly but all birds have wings. English lesson over. Hopefully you have other qualities that will allow someone to overlook your stupidity.
Most people don’t need a divorce attorney, just some change for filing fees, but soulless vampires like you don’t want that to get out.
*facepalm. Ok good luck with that. And when your spouse divorces you and you decide to represent yourself, remember, you’ll need to be able to argue the merits of your case in the context of the law. You can’t just turn to personal attacks as you’ve done here. You also need to brush up on word meaning so that you don’t contradict yourself. That advice is free.
This discussion sounds like the “Crazy Hot Matrix” all over again except this time maybe we should mention the “Powerful Crazy Matrix” man.
lol, exactly. I couldn’t have said it better.
Your words: “A man’s priority is to have sex with a beautiful lady. A woman’s priority is to impress other women.”
Where is the “generally” in that statement?
Its the word right before that quote. Bless your heart, you don’t understand context.
You appear to know nothing of either men or women.
Let me guess…you’re single?
Yeah but he drives the Lefties crazy!
Ain’t nothin more important than THAT!
He drives everyone except the far right crazies crazy. I guess we know where you are on the spectrum.
This turd has retard hair.
Ashely was selling homemade items in her Etsy store “SewVeryAshely”. It no longer exists on Etsy having just recently closed. Very odd and telling IMHO
Kincannon turns out to be a violent and threatening misogynist? wow! who’d have thought?
Kincannon is obviously asshole number one in South Carolina. The Griffith girl, were that my daughter – would’ve been removed from that psycho asshat immediately. If kincannon had talked to my daughters in that fashion, he would not find a hole deep enough to hide in
Republican. Democrat. Libertarian. Socialist sectarian. Politics does not enter in to it. Had this walking shit stain talked to any women like that , in my presence… Well. He’d be getting new dentures.
Eating soft foods only for the rest of his life
If this had been Pelion redneck Johnny talking to his old lady like that, the Pelion man would be in the Gray bar hotel.
How do assholes like kincannon get in the republican or any party
This should be a career killer. This idiot is on the radar. He’s a walking dried load.
I would seek to revoke his lawyers license. In any other real world scenario – talking in such ways is incriminating and should lead to an indictment
I fear for that Griffith girls safety.
This sad sack of psychoses needs to resign, surrender his law license and bag groceries til the end of his sad shitty life.
Griffith girl. Sister Care. Look in to it.
Over pampered redneck.
“Incredibly smart.” By the low standards of conservatism, maybe. To me he sounds like the stupid asshole he clearly is.
Kincannon blames benzonatate? Check out this source of information on side effects of the drug. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0044825/#DDIC600233.side_effects_section
I looked into, I didn’t find anything that would cause that kind of action. Even the severe allergic reaction doesn’t explain it away. How does one “accidentally” overdose on cough medicine?
Maybe it was the stuffy nose under the less common or rare, that caused it all?
Oh, he’s “smart and talented”? I would think “psychotic” would take some of the glow off that. Not that he IS smart, or talented, unless you consider a toddler pooping his pants and screaming for attention “smart and talented.” And if SHE’S smart, she’s heading for the border, any border, just to get away from him.
He is pure misogynistic filth! Hope Justice wins.
Kincannon claims he doesn’t remember last week’s incident – citing an “accidental overdose” of the prescription drug Benzonatate
The only accident was his not taking enough.
kincannon? more like LOOSEcannon.